He came unto his own, and his own received him not. John 1:11.
Parents are aware of a certain pattern of intense feelings that surface in their children each fall just as school is about to begin. Along with all the boundless eagerness to get back onto the schoolgrounds and see all their friends, the children often reveal tinges of apprehension. Their nervousness wears a familiar label: "Will my old friends still accept me? Will I be able to make friends with the new kids?"
Though Jesus was king of the universe, He had set all that aside to walk among men, with the same feelings and needs as they whom He had created in His own image. He too longed to be accepted by His friends, especially when He knew that He had so much to give them.
From all the usual reference points of deity, royalty, and sovereignty, Jesus could have said with proper dignity, "If these common sinners don't accept Me, that's their problem. I have every right simply to set them aside. I will call them My friends only if they are decent enough to accept Me as their friend."
But the apostle John, in what may sound like an incidental piece of historical detail, speaks volumes about the attitudes of our Saviour. "He came to his own, and his own received him not." When Jesus came looking for His people, He claimed them as His own, without reference to whether they accepted the relationship so freely offered.
For you see, He knew things that they did not know. He knew that they were His by design, creation, and redemption. Their Satan-induced delusions could not alter those facts. His attitude toward them was unconditional, because it was rooted in unchangeable facts of reality, not in flighty feelings. So He claimed them as His own and came to them.
Yet, because a relationship is two-sided, it could be only to those "who received him, who believed on his name," that He could give "power to become children of God" (John 1:12, R.S.V.). That invites us today. Our Father is coming to us even this morning, announcing with intense gladness of His face, "You are My very own; I claim you as Mine. Won't you be set free from the enemy's delusions and recognize who you really are?"
God does not wait until we become worthy of His claim. Rather its truthfulness, when grasped, has the power to change us!